Credit: Anna Julia Granberg @Blunderbuss 2020

I am The Frog in the Fjord: a French lady who lived in Denmark for a bit before moving to Norway for good. My name is Lorelou Desjardins, I come from Marseille in the South of France and have been living in Oslo since 2010. I am trained as a Human Rights Jurist, and speak fluent English, French, Norwegian and Indonesian.

This blog is about all these new realities foreigners like me face when trying to adapt to a new culture, language, country and most of all to new people. In this case, trying to understand the Norwegian culture and blending in (or trying hard).

I am hoping to give non-Norwegians a glimpse of what make Norway and Norwegians so awkward and so lovable; and to give Norwegians something to laugh or to think about.

In March 2017, my book En frosk i fjorden – Kunsten å bli norsk was published by Norway’s biggest publisher Cappelen Damm. It was a bestseller in Norway with more than 5000 copies sold, and on the bestseller list in May 2017.

Since 2014, I have a column in VG, Norway’s biggest online newspaper. I also work as a freelance writer for newspapers, magazines, comic strips and books; and hold lectures on inter-cultural issues and my experience of Norwegian culture in universities, companies and corporate events. You can send me an email at hello(at)lorelou(dot)com or use my contact formContact. On my website lorelou.com you can have access to all my published articles, interviews on radios, television shows like Lindmo, and reviews for my conferences and courses on working with Norwegians.

In Spring 2021 my new book came out, called A Frog in the Fjord – One Year in Norway. It was recently recommended by Forbes and is sold on Amazon, as well as from my own publishing house (to order it from me with a personal dedication, shop here). In October 2022 it will come out in French and hopefully soon to come in Spanish!

Bonne lecture!

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  1. Hey! That’s an interesting blog, specially since I’ve been struggling with Swedish myself and these languages are quite similar. But I wanted to ask if you are writing in French somewhere as well – or if not, maybe you can suggest some interesting French blogs/about French/France, since I’m trying to boost my language skills above “Can I have one milk and chocolate bar, please,” but it’s turning out to be really difficult.

  2. No, I live in Estonia, I just studied Swedish for fun (that sounded a lot more boring than it is supposed to). But let us know if you start writing in French. 🙂

  3. Jeg har lest alle blogginnleggene dine nå, og jeg elsker bloggen din! Du skriver bra og er utrolig god på å ta oss nordmenn på kornet! : )

  4. Takk helgal (er du helt gal eller Helga? 🙂 Jeg håper at du fortsette å liker bloggen min. Jeg prøver å skrive ærlig hva jeg tenker om vår kjære Norge og Nordmenn. Takk for støtten!

  5. Hei!

    Morsomt skrevet. Artig å lese observasjoner om Norge sett både utenfra og innenfra. Du er ikke på Twitter?

    1. Takk for det! Så hyggelig å høre at Nordmenn også liker hva jeg skriver. Jeg trenger å bli litt flinkere på norsk, og så kan jeg begynner å skrive poster på norsk også.

  6. I am a swedish guy that lived in Norway 10 years and since then around in Europe. I read a few of your posts…. Spot on nostalgia thank you 🙂

  7. I realy like this blog, I just moved from Northern Norway to Oslo and there is a cultural difference even there so i will say i have lived trough some of thees feelings my self. keep wrighting!

  8. hi.. really like your blog.
    especially because i lived in norway and now i am working for a french company.

  9. Salut, jai lu ton article sur Likestilling dans le pays des viking.Tres vrai et interessant, surement tres sympa pour les norvegiens de pouvoir lire ca et de regarder leur coutume avec un masque etranger. Bonne continuation!
    Un autre Frosk qui habite en Norvege (Fransk-Norsk 😉

  10. Great blog, you’ve a new follower right now. I’m spanish, mediterranean, so we may have similar views 😉 I’ll see you around here!

  11. Thanks for the joy that comes with reading it! 🙂 Having lived in Norway for quite a while myself, I find it pretty well informed and funny.

  12. Hi

    Maybe you would like to get your money back on that “No Ads” deal because I’m seeing them everywhere.

    Anyway, love your blog! Keep it up!



  13. Can you put a feed on your blog so we can follow it by receiving updates by mail etc. For a native Norwegian, this blog is really fun to read.

  14. The best thing I’ve come across on the net in a long time. And as one who moved to Norway as a young adult (decades ago), I find so much that reverberates. Norway has changed a lot since I moved here and has not changed at all. En plus, j’arrive encore à lire la version francaise… Det gir en litt forskjellig opplevelse å lese det samme på to språk. Keep it up!

  15. Salut Lou 🙂 Je suis tombée sur ton blog grâce à un article sur osloby.no! Je n’ai pas encore eu le temps de le découvrir, mais j’ai vraiment hâte, j’adore le principe et c’est la meilleure façon pour qqn (ici: les Norvégiens) d’apprendre à connaître sa propre culture, à travers les yeux de l’autre 🙂 Je suis professeur de norvégien en ligne et je publierai sûrement certains de tes articles sur ma page facebook (www.facebook.com/norskmedsilje) si ça te dérange pas! Au plaisir de te lire et à bientôt dans les champs de commentaires 🙂 Silje

    1. C’est la même ici 🙂 Il n’y a pas longtemps, j’ai découvert le blog de Lou après avoir lu l’entretien à osloby.no. Je ne peux pas arrêter de rire 🙂

  16. Juste pour prévenir… tout est pas kikoo super en Norvège. Après quelques années le rideau tombe, et ca fait très mal. Je suis ici depuis bientôt 7 ans et j’aurai jamais du. Jamais de vrai boulot, de vrais potes qui peuvent rendre service si vraiment besoin, habitant de seconde zone, système de soins catastrophique, etc… faut surtout pas mettre toutes ses billes dans le même panier ici et ne pas hésiter à repartir en FR. J’aurais du faire cela il y a cinq ans, maintenant je suis bloqué et trop vieux pour recommencer ma vie une nouvelle fois en France (la France ou grâce aux concours on peut avoir du boulot, pas grâce à des connaissances comme c’est le cas ici). Bref tant mieux si ca roule pour toi mais te laisse pas embobiner, c’est une société ultra superficielle ce pays, et le manque de “normalité”, que ce soit pour trouver un compagnon, manger de la bouffe correcte, etc… se fait vite sentir. Quand cca arrive on se dit “je suis un immigré c’est normal de galérer un peu, ca va aller…” et on patiente, patiente, on encaisse, et puis au final c’est trop tard on est trop vieux pour étudier à nouveau, on peut plus rien faire. J’avais un blog du même genre en 07-08 sur nos amis Norvégiens mais j’ai jamais continué… 🙂

    Après de longues années ici j’ai l’impression que les seuls expats heureux sont ceux venus par amour pour un(e) local(e) ou pour un taff surpayé dans le pétrole… ces derniers n’étant ici que pour remplir leurs bas de laines et rentrer en France blindés…

  17. Hi, Ms Frog. I love your blog, particularly fun to follow being a Norwegian living in another European country. Can I link to you on my FB page?

  18. Blogg agréable et amusant à lire! Francaise, j’habite en Norvège depuis 27 ans, dans le Romsdal, et nous avons 3 grandes filles norvégiennes qui habitent à Oslo.
    J’ai passé ma vie à faire ce genre de comparaisons entre nos 2 pays aussi!
    Mais je trouve dommage de révéler nos “secrets” sur la Norvège et sur
    les norvégiens, il ne faudrait pas que trop de francais soient tentés et rappliquent ici!

  19. Thank you for a very entertaining read. Spot on!

    I’m a Norwegian myself, but have travelled quite a bit and also lived abroad for some time, and your observations are a bit too close to the mark. You really manage to let your affection for all our little quirks shine through though, so all in good fun 🙂

    By the way, have you observed the Norwegian custom called “Where are you from?”, enacted whenever two Norwegians without common acquaintances meet.
    If you have, I’d love it if you’d share your thoughts from an outsiders perspective.

  20. Hi! Thanks so much for putting this blog together. I discovered your blog earlier today and I’ve read all the posts already!
    I actually live no where close to Norway but I am dating a Norwegian guy and would find it really interesting if you can write something about the dating culture in Norway? We’ve been fine so far (6 months into the relationship) but I am visiting Norway and his family this summer and so I’m trying to do my research, if you know what I mean ;). If you can’t find the time or enough material, that’s fine too though. I’d enjoy your other posts equally as much.
    Thanks again!

  21. Hei, Frog in the fjord!! J’adore votre blog! c’est drôle, original et intéressant ! 🙂
    Je suis passionnée par la culture scandinave et j’apprends le norvégien depuis presque 3 ans… enfin, j’essaie !! depuis la France, ce n’est pas si évident!!!
    Un blog comme celui-là m’encourage à continuer!!! Merci!!! 🙂

  22. Omg hahaha your blog is so great 🙂 I’m thinking about studying in Norway and it’s so interesting for me to read about Norway on your blog. So I can get an idea how it is to live there as a foreigner 🙂

  23. Avec vos articles, je comprends certaines subtilités de mon norvégien de copain 😉

  24. I am a latin american guy living in Norway since 2 months… so I feel a lot of you talk apply to me as well… great blog, fun to read and informative 😀

  25. Takk for en bra og morsom blogg! 🙂 … og jeg ler så jeg griner av din tekst “Nos amis les Norvégiens” 🙂

  26. …og jeg håper det er i orden at jeg trykket “Del på Fb”? – denne bloggen er så hjertelig godt skrevet at jeg kan ikke annet enn å anbefale den videre. (Jeg er selv norsk/fransk og kjenner meg så godt igjen fra begge sider!) (Y) 🙂

  27. Kom over bloggen din og har lest alt om Norge og Nordmenn.
    Er nordmann selv og kjenner meg igjen i nesten alt du skriver. Etter å ha lest alt, småfnist en halvtime og blitt påmint at jeg må ta meg en tur til hytta snart, syntes jeg det var på min plass å legge igjen en kommentar. Stå på !! Fantastisk blogg 🙂 Hilsen Olivia

  28. I love your French frog with beret, etc. Interesting blog …you have to understand that Canada does not get large mass migrations of Norwegians wanting to immigrate to Canada. And we don’t read much about Norway in the international press in Canada.

  29. Bonjour, je viens de lire votre récent article dans VG à propos des étrangetés que l’on rencontre dans ce pays. A mourir de rire ! Tout y est tellement exact ! Après douze ans de vie dans ce pays et trente trois ans de mariage avec une norvégienne (et oui, je ne suis plus si jeune…) je pourrais même en rajouter, en rajouter…Mais là n’est pas mon propos. Je voulais juste vous dire bravo. Je vais suivre et diffuser votre blog dans la mesure de mes moyens. J’habite à Kristiansand, si vous avez besoin de quoi que ce soit, n’hésitez pas…
    Jean Marc

  30. Stearinlysene er tent, det er varme på peisen og jeg leser blogg og ler høyt for meg selv. Veldig koselig! 😊

  31. hei,
    I had so much fun reading this, I used and use forsatt this tricks by myself!
    And I know a lot of this situations, too.. That`s the fun in beeing a foreigner and learning a new language..

  32. Bonjour,

    Je viens de découvrir votre blog.
    Merci à VG.no et à vous, bien sûr!
    BRAVO pour votre approche “cultural studies” (ma spécialité à la fac) et votre humour !

    Pensez-vous compléter la partie in french ?
    J’aimerais bien le mettre en lien sur mon blog qui lui traite des royaux norvégiens … je sais, je sais, nul n’est parfait !

    1. Chère Maud,
      Les lecteurs francophones interessés à lire sur les Norvégiens sont en général anglophones aussi. J’ai eu très peu de retour sur les textes en francais du coup j’ai un peu lâché l’affaire.
      Désolée! mais j’adore écrire en francais, qui est quand même ma langue maternelle. (dsl pour le manque de cédilles)

      1. @Frog: You can simply add the lacking French characters ç, œ and «», or in fact any other character, to your Norwegian keyboard with the help of Microsoft Keyboard Layout Creator. Give it a try, it’s free and it works like a charm!


        Personally, I don’t write French fluently, but I need to be able to spell French and German names correctly on a regular basis, so on my Scandinavian keyboard I added key combinations such as ç = AltGr + c, Ç = AltGr + C, ß = AltGr + s etc.

  33. Wow! Such a koselighet comes from your posts 😀
    I followed your blog, since I’ve had some meetings with Norwegians and especially with their very soothe language; it seems I’ve acquired some aspects of their world and culture without realizing it, or simply have had them always!

    Best regards,

  34. Hi, dear friend!

    I was made aware of your blog on Norway and Norwegians by my niece in Norway. I am originally Norwegian, so is my entire family. I now have lived many, many years in the US, and started reading with enthusiasm, as I could easily recognice most aspects of your experiences with Norway. However, I must say, that I totally lost interest when I repeatedly found cross-refferences to – pretty much – “those (negative word) Americans”. I wonder what your experience with the USA is, or is it just your way of kissing up to Norwegians? Just saying. You should learn more about Amercans, probably the greatest and social people on this planet, before you rag on them for “being nothing but small talk”, etc. So, I’m out.

  35. Petite devinette: pourquoi le pissenlit est le løvetann en norvégien et le dandelion en anglais? Ben oui, dandelion c’est dent de lion, non? Tout serait bien si cette plante s’appelait la dent de lion en français mais non … 😉

  36. Thank you very much for publishing this blog, I very much enjoy reading about your observations. Most are indeed spot on, and similar to my own. I really love your sense of humour about happenings in daily situations many others are not aware about. While I have been long enough in Norway to see things from the inside, my cradle was kicked further south …

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